My mom doesn't want me to worry, as there's incredibly little I can do. This is true.

I'm blessed and cursed to see many facets of things, though, and this is a master-crafted gemstone of "fuck", just ready to hit the light of day and start blinding people.

@thraeryn Mum is right this is fully out of your hands. But I hope everything goes as gently as it possibly can because shit like this is never easy.

@TheLizardQueen
Thanks. ❤️ It's a lot to see unfolding. I really hope we can defer.

@thraeryn soz to hear this. hopefully her estate won’t be contested. we sometimes see this happen in work.

you call your gran, paw paw as in the Chinese word?

@applecandy
My deceased grandfather, yes. I was never sure where the name originated.

@applecandy
Thanks for the wishes. I also hope the estate won't be contested when the time comes, even if it's simply due to everyone being in shock. The relationships between my dad and his sisters are already strained sometimes. They don't need a new fight.

@thraeryn it’s really horrible when families do this.

I always think that karma comes to those who do bad when they get older so they’ll end up seeing how they behaved when they were younger.

@applecandy
Could be. I honestly don't know what skeletons may be in their respective closets.

I just really hope my granny recovers well, pushing all of this back to maybe a more stable set of circumstances.